I am a photographer located in Central Jersey. For the first time in my life I am focusing all of my efforts on photography, trying to bring what is in my head to life.

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I used to just hang out, make out, have sex, whatever. I didn’t care about waking up next to anyone. I didn’t think about the future. I didn’t think about someone to come home to.

And now, now I just want all of that. The things I used to have. Someone who was completely in love with me. Someone to face the future with.

WHEN DID I BECOME A FUCKING GIRL!?

Seriously though. Bummed. All the time. 

I miss dating. I miss having someone to share my life with. I miss rolling over and feeling someone next to me. 

i guess this is growing up.

dating got so effing hard.

I remember when I was younger all I needed was a cute face and a great ass and I was interested. Now I need you to have a good head on your shoulders. A big heart. To be able to laugh often. Lover of music and photography. Someone who makes me want to be a better person. Someone driven. 

I literally have not really dated anyone since Maggie. We broke up so long ago. But it takes so much more for me to want to let someone into my life. And if I meet anyone I ever do have a spark with there are always complications.

It’s super frustrating. But I also won’t settle. 

I don’t know what the point of this is really. But it would be great if a great girl with her shit together came along. I think I deserve this. 

dismantle, repair.: No one dates anymore.

deadboltphotos:

I was talking about this with a girl at work yesterday, no one dates. They “hang out”, get drinks, and hook up. They don’t go on dates. Dudes expect everything to go so fast. Girls do too. They don’t go on dates.

Which is a shame because dating is fun. Sitting at dinner getting to know each…

No one dates anymore.

I was talking about this with a girl at work yesterday, no one dates. They “hang out”, get drinks, and hook up. They don’t go on dates. Dudes expect everything to go so fast. Girls do too. They don’t go on dates. 

Which is a shame because dating is fun. Sitting at dinner getting to know each other. Holding hands during a movie. The sexual tension. The build up. That is half the fun. The build up leading to sex is exciting. 

I miss that. Dating. Going on dates. Getting dressed up a bit. Picking her up at her house. Holding doors. Shared laughs and butterflies. I miss that shit. 

Let’s bring dating back. We need to stop rushing everything and expecting sex after 2 drinks. Dating is fun.