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Suck a dick (How backstabbing only hurts yourself)

I just found out that another photographer I know was talking shit behind my back about something. Someone I have always been cool with, even though I don’t really love his work. The stuff he was saying was not true, but basically he was bitter because he felt like I took a job from him. A job I didn’t even know he was up for that he basically fucked himself out of.

It’s funny, I am pretty laid back and nice to everyone, but I also used to work in a jail. So I have that other side to me that will put you through the floor. My anger kicked in for a second and I wanted to tell that dude to suck a dick.

But then I took a step back. Abby reminded me that most people aren’t going to want someone else to succeed. It is a sad reality of the world we live in. People will slit their best friends throat if it means they can sell the blood.

At the end of the day though, bitterness and backstabbing comes back around. This particular dude fucked himself out of a couple big jobs I know about personally. 

It is hard sometimes, but I have always chosen to let my work speak for me. I shot 5 shoots in 3 days last week, so something must be going right.

And thanks to you guys, once again, for having my back. And to those who don’t- you can suck a dick.

(just kidding. mostly)

  1. quinnbrabender said: Same EXACT thing happened to me three weeks ago. Local girl was pissed that I was given a job opportunity (when I worked harder than she did to get it). All she did was complain and talk shit about me for a couple days to people. Unbelievable.
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  3. introspx said: when the haters arrive you know you’ve made it. brush your shoulders off and keep succeeding!
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